Have you ever been invited to send nudes or sexy selfies? Yeah, who didn't! The sexting is just one of those things that's going to happen, and there's no point in denying it. Instead, the best thing we can do is educate people on how to do it in a safer way and only send nudes or erotic photos if they are really comfortable and what to do. 'they wish. When a Reddit user started an AskMen thread asking, "How important are naughty photos to a relationship?" That raised an interesting question, what do guys think of women who send nudes?
Ambrosi75 wrote: “I am a woman who hates taking selfies, especially the naughty / sexy ones. I have no talent and I am bad at taking pictures. Would not wanting to send and share naughty photos be a deciding factor or a stop for you? Especially when you get to know a woman [and] do you think you have a serious relationship with her? “And the answers are really surprising…
Send nudes?
1. “I really don't care. There's a weird emphasis on sharing nudes and sexting these days that is downright off-putting. If we want to see each other naked, just make a date and see what happens. " [Via]
2. “I much prefer to see him in person than in a photo. It's a lot more fun. " [Via]
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3. “Not at all. I actually kind of hate how nudes have become so ubiquitous and expected these days. I think kids these days grow up with totally wrong and wrong ideas about what is 'normal' behavior by interacting with the opposite. sex, thanks to this new technology. Not sending them would be a plus in my book. Shows that she has good judgment and foresight (you never know what a guy does with the photos after they break up). " [Via]
4. “I have been married for four years and my wife has never sent me a dirty message. But not how we do things, I guess. This has never been a problem in our relationship! " [Via]
5. “It depends on whether the relationship is long distance. If so, I can see it matters more. If he lives in the same city… then no, not important or necessary at all. This is ultimately what makes you comfortable. " [Via]
6. ' For me that's definitely> 0% importance, just because I'm a visual guy and currently in a medium distance relationship where we only see each other once a week. However, it's not a big deal, but it's a small deal, if that makes sense. " [Via]
7. “My S / O doesn't take photos or videos - she has a professional job where her reputation is valued. She longs to run for office someday, and nude photos aren't something she needs in years to come. down the line (by choice or by accident). " [Via]
8. “I would prefer to share the privacy in person. Maybe in marriage or in a long-term relationship that would be hot (especially as a tease leading to a fun night out that she's planned), but at the start of a relationship, it's a I should add. that I'm not a religious conservative or anything (I'm actually extremely open-minded, especially in the bedroom) my opinions on this are just my personal preference. " [Via]
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9. “This is a really big deal. I completely agree. I don't take hot photos for similar reasons. If she's willing to send them, I delete them almost instantly. But I am not asking for them and I will not involve him. " [Via]
10. “It's not at all a deciding factor. If your guy wants them and is harassing you, I would take that as a bad sign. Don't get me wrong, I love getting them and sending them, but there is excitement when it's unexpected. But, if my daughter never did, I would agree because I can live it in the flesh. Much better. " [Via]
11. “Not very important at all. And when people send them, I always just take all the beauty. I don't judge the angles or the lighting. Then I delete them permanently because the data is only private if it is deleted. " [Via]
12. “Definitely not a deciding factor, if you send me a photo that's great, but it doesn't have to be. It shows confidence and desire, but I think you can show it a lot better in person. But every guy is different. " [Via]
13. “My partner and I don't send them because we're both extremely paranoid about data breaches and hacks. Naughty / dirty (but not pornographic) texts and emails are there for us. [Via]
14. The only reason I sent and received these photos is because I liked the physical validation. If that was the only way to get that validation, I wouldn't be in the relationship in the first place. For me personally, it's not that important at all, certainly never a deciding factor. It's just something that's nice to have when you trust the person you're with. " [Via]
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15. “The kind of guys I know who would judge a girl on their naughty photos are also guys who may be inclined to show those photos to brag to others. That being said, different people have different preferences. Foreplay often starts well. outside the bedroom, and personally, I have always found the hottest, risky but not necessarily nude photos. It creates anticipation for both of you. " [Via]
16. “Not really, it's really up to you. It can be fun, but it shouldn't be necessary to keep your relationship going. If you're in love, there's a good chance you'll see yourself naked at some point. I know my S / O doesn't need me to send him cock pics, but we jokingly send each other revealing pics every now and then. After we had been going out for a few years, she started to occasionally send me pictures of her. It doesn't happen all the time, but I don't need it either. " [Via]
17. “A little complicated. I need to put them all in a password protected directory and make sure none are in the photos app. I watch them like once a year and usually because I'm bored and fiddling with the phone. . " [Via]
18. "Sometimes if you're having a shitty day at work and you've got a teasing little photo of what's going to happen around the house, you don't have to be filthy naked or anything. , but it will immediately make your day. And that's just another aspect of a passionate relationship. " [Via]
19. “I don't really see a need for them, although in a long-distance relationship they can be attractive - that said I would only deal with them if it was a long-term, well-established relationship. " [Via]
20. “I only send them over the Internet. " [Via]
This article was originally published in 2017.
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