While many people are doing their civic duty and practicing social distancing to try to stop the spread of COVID-19, one side effect cannot be ignored: everyone is really excited and seems to be getting more excited by the day. day. We are isolated and alone, with days spent at home stretching out before us like a desert with no end in sight. Porn viewership is on the rise, sex toy sales are on the rise, and cam sites are doing well too. Although I can't guarantee that anyone wants to have sex Suites than before, it is certain that we all have less. There is an insatiable need for connection – sexual connection, in particular. It's high time for nudes.
Sending someone nude photos is a salad of risk, vulnerability and intimacy – some of the most important ingredients of arousal. While it was once a bit of a taboo, it's the standard, albeit still spicy, fare these days. A survey found that around a third of people under 45 have already sent nude photos, and I'd be shocked if that number didn't increase during our winter of distancing. Virtually everyone surveyed is at least on board with sexting, but how do you go from flirting to nude sexting? And how, if asked, do you take a hot photo yourself? Let me – and some of my fellow nude enthusiasts – tell you the rules.
Preparation is the most important part
Whether we speak in person or on screen, seeing your naked body is always seeing your naked body. So you should never surprise someone with a nude photo unless you have a long-standing relationship where you frequently show each other your naked bodies. Agreed? Obviously, you should only send nudes to someone who has asked for them, but you should also be prepared for a butt selfie or sultry bedroom shot, just like you would with real nudity.
So you want to start out exchanging verbal sexts before you get to the visual stuff. And it's typical to ask someone to show something of themselves before you submit your own photos, but if you really want to send before you receive, that can be tweaked. The key is to ask if they want to see something. You can directly say, “I'm so excited; can I send a photo? Or you can be a little more subtle, like, "I wish I could show you how tough I am," and let them take the next step and ask.
Just because someone sent I a nude photo doesn't mean they expect you to send one back. You should still warn someone before you reciprocate. And of course you never avoir to.
Butts never fail, but feel free to branch out
Butts are pretty much universal in their appeal, so don't be afraid to show it off. As Kelly said, “I like to see butts and thighs. Men don't show us their asses enough, to be honest. Use a mirror if you feel like you can't get the right angle, or lie on your stomach and take a picture over your shoulder.
But (no pun intended), don't be afraid to send photos of less traditionally sexy body parts. Nicole, 25, from Chicago, said: 'I'm into chest hair, so I used to sext a guy who knew it and mostly sent pics of his chest, with just a hint of dick. Several people I spoke to extolled the virtues of the classic shirt-up photo: “The best nude photo I ever received was of a guy pulling his shirt up with his teeth, revealing his abs and pecs. … here we go,” said Marina, 23, from Drammen, Norway.
You don't have to be completely naked
We all understand the potential danger of nude photos, unfortunately. Of course, in an ideal world, it doesn't matter that someone – gasping – has a naked body, but clearly we don't live in that world. So to adjust, keep your face out of the picture with the ID tattoos (if you can and want to take that precaution). But also know that you don't have to be completely naked to be sexy.
