If you've ever tried to navigate the minefield of online dating, there's a good chance you've received a dick pic. They're usually a bit of a surprise, tend to be quite early in the conversation, and normally give you all the clarification you need to get the boy out because he clearly doesn't have any social skills.
The point is, cock pics aren't just something some women find a little dark; Unless explicitly requested, they are in fact just another form of sexual harassment that has become so common for women. After all, how many women do you hear of who send vagina photos to men they just met on Tinder?
So, we were particularly interested in a particular thread from the Reddit forum, asking men why the hell do they struggle so often in front of the camera? Here's what they said ...
1. Some men want to get something in return
“I did it once. I'm not sure what I thought was going to happen. Maybe I thought I had a nice cock and wanted to show it off, maybe I thought I would get nudes from her in return, I don't know But, the laughter and the ridiculousness of my 70s bush was not what I expected. Then I found out that she showed it to her 80-year-old colleague. Never again. Never again. "
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2. Others do it for reaction
“I would describe it as a pervert, really. There's a certain reaction I'm looking for from the recipient and it just makes me feel good. I rarely look for sex as the end result. I think I am enjoying the reaction and it makes me feel like someone is impressed with me and has sexual desire for me. "
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3. It may be part of a sex or porn addiction
“A few years ago I was completely in depression and porn addiction. I didn't really want to sleep with someone but jerk off and send pics of cocks so that's what I did. I've slammed just about every woman I've had contact from an "anonymous" account. Some girls several times a day. A few of them ended up getting together, doing some detective work, and calling the police. I was charged with 3 counts of confidentiality in communications and indecent exposure, had to spend 3 days in jail, pay a heavy fine, lost my job, lost my apartment, had to move with my mother for a year and walked away from a lot of friends. "
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4. Some use it to find out if a potential partner is interested or not
“I can't speak for straight men, but I'm gay and I will from time to time. To be honest, I realize this is a stop for many - but for some it's a quick and easy way to gauge interest. "
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5. Some men just want to show off their big penises
“I have a big dong and I don't care about the reactions. It made me feel good about myself, and I've always wanted to have a big dong, sucks if no one knows, it doesn't work to your advantage. But really I was just a little horny and wanted someone to find me attractive. "
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6. Some guys do it to turn women on
“I sent a cock pic once. It was to a woman I was already sleeping with. But I found out after sending her that she wanted more. She told me that she would watch her all the time and play with herself. I am no longer with her but she told me that she still has it and that she still likes to touch it. It makes me feel good I guess. "
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7. Others do it to boost their low self-esteem
“I stopped doing it for many years now, but I did it all the time. Is it hard to describe what I was thinking when I was doing it? But I largely had low self-esteem and wanted to be “wanted” sexually.
I eventually stopped doing it because the validation I was getting from it was superficial and not worth everything that came with it. It was really more of a misguided replacement for trying to make meaningful connections with people I felt I wasn't “good enough” for. "
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8. Some like the buzz
“I have sent my cock to girls I have only recently known and have been fortunate to receive positive responses; the pleasure of doing it got the better of me. I am lucky to be really happy with my dingeldong. I will not do it. But do it completely at random. "
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